OK. Well There's this guy that I like, I was gone to college, and when I got back It seems to me he likes me. He always wants to hang out. And we talked a lot of the phone or msn, He told me he wanted to have sex with me. But to me that's a little much, Although we have known each other for 4 years and I'm good firneds with him since high school. But I don't know if he's using me, but we did fool around a bit but he still wants to be friends and hang out. I hope I'm making sense here lol. Please help me out if you have any advice. Thank you! :)

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Originally Posted by mandyb

OK. Well There's this guy that i like, I was gone to college, and when i got back It seems to me he likes me. He always wants to hang out. And we talked alot of the phone or msn, He told me he wanted to have sex with me. But to me thats a little much, Although we have known eachother for 4 years and im good firneds with him since high school. But i dont know if hes using me, but we did fool around a bit but he still wants to be friends and hang out. I hope im making sence here lol. Please help me out if you have any advice. Thankyou! :)

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sorry but i didnt get wat u wanna ask.....

nywayz as u both kno each other well n for so long now i think u hav to b frank enuf to urselfs abt how dis relation is goin to end as....

i mean u shud b clear of wat u gonna do......u both r equally responsible to take ny decision

one more thing is please b clear in askin ques

sorry but i didnt understand clearly wat u wanna ask......

Well if you want to find out if he's using you tell him flat out that your not going to have sex with him for at least a year, maybe longer. In the mean time if he wants to get to know you that you would really like that. What he does next will tell you all you need to know.

He already told you what he wants. SEX. No matter how you feel make sure he doesn't use you by giving in to him. If you do, why would he stick around? (more sex) Waiting to see what he does, without getting sex will show you how he feels, as chuff has pointed out. Nobody can use you unless you let them.