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Hello people help me, I feel shame when I meet woman for sex because I know myself am not circumcised. Many women hate uncircumcised men. Few days to come am expecting to meet a woman for sex but she likes touching penis and I don't know how will I do so that she can not discover if am not circumcised. Help me please I love her and she know that I love her.
OH BOY!. Geezzzz man... you don't have one damn thing to be ashamed of! I understand though, I am uncircumsized as well. There is so much misinformation and social stigma in North America about this subject. I can emphethize how you feel though... many north american ( I'm assuming you are living there) women have a bit of a negative view( although I think this is changing) about an uncircumsized penis. They are just uninformed that's all.
I used to be a bit selfconcsious when I was younger but over the years I have realized that most girls just don't care and even if they did then they are not right for you anyway. Many of my past girlfriends, even the ones that have never seen an uncircumsized penis before admitted to me after that they loved the feeling. Don't try to ruin the experience by being to worried about it! As long as you take care of yourself and are a clean guy there should be no problems. If she is uncomfortable by it then you may have to educate her... make it a game... make it fun! If she is openminded type girl then you will have no problems.
Focus on the moment ,on her and don`t hold back... have fun!
Hello k:
I agree with the guy above... But, the good news is you have a choice in the matter.. You can have it done if you're so bothered by it.
excon
My first boyfriend was uncircumsized. I had never seen a guys penis before his so the extra skin was normal to me.
Now I am with a guy who is circumsized and when we first starting dating his looked strange to me, not the other way around.
In the end girls care more about you as a person than whether you are cut. And those that don't really like uncircumsizes penises really aren't worth your time anyway, it's only one small part of you and if they can't get past that that's their problem.
If I had to express a preference I would personally go for uncut. But I'm much more interested in the guy that's attached than a few mm of skin.
Hello again, k:
I've also heard that uncircumcised men experience a MUCH BETTER orgasm than circumcised men do. Frankly, I'd leave well enough alone.
excon
Kato, may I ask what country you live in?
If you are in a relationship with someone who cares about you as person, then being uncircumsized shouldn't matter. She will care about you and learning how to share pleasure with you.
Most people are self-conscious about something. I am sure she has her concerns too. Be patient with each other and learn from each other.
Man, thanks very much you real deserve to be a psychologist. But all in all I will try to do what you are saying. May be I can need to tell you also that am an african boy and the lady is african girl from ethiopia in which circumcision rate is almost 100% and in my country is 68% it is real different. I don't know how she can percive me but thanks for that courage I will do it hope I will enjoy it too.
Will say this, it does not matter, but you say you are "meeting" a girl for sex, you did not say you and your girlfriend of so many months are getting ready to have sex.
The difference is a person who cares for you and if your real girlfriend will not care. A sex buddy is different.
Being un circumcised is AWESOME!. In my female opinion hah
It's the natural way your junk should look, and if any chick says ew to it then they need to figure out what's what. Any lady deserving and respectable would love you for you and not base her love on if your thang has extra skin or not !
In all honesty you will have better feeling sex and she will have better feeling sex because you aren't circumcised, this is a fact!
Removing the foreskin makes it a less effective tool. You were born with it for a reason. Secondly, you're the minority so you stand out from the rest of the boys.
Being uncircumcised myself, I can tell you that any woman that's willing to go to bed with you will not care what it looks like provided it still works. In fact, a lot of women--i.e. above poster--like it in favor.
As a woman's point of view, I can safely say that as long as I can have that intense orgasm, I don't care what the size or look of it is...Quote:
Originally Posted by kato86
Don't worry about it... you CAN always have it done if it bothers you that much... but I doubt it will make enough of a difference to go through that now as an adult male. I think it's a fallicy that it effects your orgasms... I'm circumsized and if I had more intense orgasms... I'd be blacking out.
I never got the chop, you want my two cents? Most women who don't like or are scared of the au natural dong, have never endulged. There's nothing wrong with you man. Answer this question for me... If everyone is worried about penis size and what not... why would you want to cut anything off it? Especially something that moved around?
I've had sex in many different situations... relationships, friends, one night stands... seriously man, the only thing you have to worry about, is worrying about it.
I promise.
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