:( OK so there's this guy he's pretti much mi ex. I broke up with him the next day he said he didn't want a relationship animore. He later on asked a couple of mi friends how I was doing & if I was OK. He was depressed for a long time like 2 months. Then he keeps changing his mind about being with me or another girl. He can't seem 2 make up his mind. I've dated him twice & he's never dated the same girl more than 2 times. Now mi friend told me he said he wants 2 go back out with me. He hasn't changed his mind yet. He came over & when he left he gave me a kiss goodbye & said ill c u later. I think the next time I c him he's going to ask me out. But I'm not sure what to say. A part of me duznt want to take him back. But a part of me is still in love with him. Then I want to say goodbye then something else says don't. Mi heart tells me give him another chance but should I rele listen to what mi hearts telling me? I'm not sure what I should do & id like to know what I can do.

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Originally Posted by Tears4MiBrokenHeart

:( ok so theres this guy hes pretti much mi ex. i broke up with him the next day he said he didnt want a relationship animore. he later on asked a couple of mi friends how i was doin & if i was ok. he was depressed 4 a long time like 2 months. then he keeps changing his mind about bein with me or another girl. he can't seem 2 make up his mind. ive dated him twice & hes never dated the same girl more than 2 times. now mi friend told me he said he wants 2 go back out with me. he hasnt changed his mind yet. he came over & when he left he gave me a kiss goodbye & said ill c u later. i think the next time i c him hes gonna ask me out. but im not sure wut to say. a part of me duznt wanna take him back. but a part of me is still in love with him. then i wanna say goodbye then something else says dont. mi heart tells me give him another chance but shud i rele listen to wut mi hearts tellin me? im not sure wut i shud do & id like to know wut i can do.

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think twice before takin any action

well as he didnt say anything we can't b sure of the fact dat he wanna return to

sorry if hurtin u......but its d fact...unless he is clear himself abt d fact

no one can do nything

wat if he again leaves u......sorry to say but can happen listenin to his previous behaviour

nywayz....he shud asure u abt it.....wat i think is u both gotta talk

n clear things before gettin over it.....

as u wud not wish to land up in similar situation again......

all d best....

Poor confused kid, doesn't know what he wants so the question is, is he worth another chance, or are you tired of trying? You should be having fun not going through head games.

Hmm.. So basically what you're telling us is... That your boyfriend, then ex, then boyfriend again, and then ex again, is going to try and be your boyfriend again?. That's a little confusing, but I think I understand it. In my opinion, I think if he breaks your heart one more time, break his legs. Er, never mind, strike that last statement. Give him one more chance, and if he blows it, just ignore him for like... 1 month, then just be friends. If he tries to get you again, tell him you've moved on.