My wife controls our sex life.
We have been married 43 years, our sex life was very good too many years ago. Today our problems are 1 I have ED. This requires the use of a pump device. 2. We have both had back surgery with us both having vertibrey being fused, this does leave us with pain, hers worse than mine. 3. She suffers with chronic depression, fatigue and generly a poor outlook on life. 4. The big problem is that my condition requires us to use the pump to get and maintain an erection, her madications couse her lebido to nonexhistant. She controls our sex life. I give her massages to help with the stiffness and the pain almost every night after showers, sometime two times a day. This only puts her to sleep or that is enough to satisfy her. I am very attracted to my wife and I am looking for help getting us back to a more normal sex life. Any help out there.