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  • Oct 22, 2010, 01:27 PM
    gol_goli
    How a married woman can be with a single man?
    I am a married woman, and I like my husband but I am not full happy he is so nice and it's a but 10 years that we have problem in sex. He can do that. But I don't want to leave him for this reason.I know he love me so much. Last year one of my friend was falling in love with me but I don't trust him. He is so young and a good sex partner but I can trust him in a relation. I am so sad.
    I don't what I should do.
  • Oct 22, 2010, 02:32 PM
    jmjoseph

    So, your husband cannot perform the act of sex? And the "friend" is helping out?
  • Oct 22, 2010, 02:57 PM
    Just Dahlia
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jmjoseph View Post
    So, your husband cannot perform the act of sex? And the "friend" is helping out?

    And your husband knows?:confused:
  • Oct 22, 2010, 06:01 PM
    talaniman

    How do you know he is a good sex partner?
  • Oct 22, 2010, 06:53 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Or work the street and charge for it, then no emotions

    You love your husband, he can do many things to fulfill your needs, so your excuse to cheat is nothing but bull.
  • Oct 22, 2010, 07:53 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gol_goli View Post
    I am a married woman, and I like my husband but I am not full happy he is so nice and its a but 10 years that we have problem in sex. he can do that. but I don't want to leave him for this reason.I konw he love me so much. last year one of my friend was falling in love with me but I dont trust him. he is so young and a good sex partner but I can trust him in a relation. I am so sad.
    I don't what I should do.

    Have you actually sat down and discussed the problems with your husband? Has he seen a doctor? Have you considered counseling?

    Turning to someone else is not the answer. You hurt everyone involved, including yourself. Stop contact with this single man. End it now before it goes any further and work at building a better relationship with your husband.

    If you won't end it, then do the decent thing at this point and end your marriage so that you no longer are dishonest with your husband by betraying his trust and his love for you.
  • Oct 23, 2010, 09:44 AM
    jmjoseph
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    How do you know he is a good sex partner?

    You can bet that he just didn't mention it at dinner one night. I think that the line has already been crossed.

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