OK well I am pose to start my period tomm. Jan 3 but I started tonight.. I have been having a lot of signs of pregnancy but being sick.. but the past couple of days I have just been feeling REALLY sick to my tummy.. but I can't seem to vommitt... my period so far is kind of normal.. besides the fact that I haven't bleed red yet which is not common for me.. not to mention that I did spot on the 23 of dec. could I be pregnant. And if I took a test would it work or does it have to be after a missed period..? Because in my mind I really feel like I may be pregnant.. what should I do.. please somebody give me some advice besides go see your doc. Because I have to work and it is hard for me to just stop my job and loose the money to go to the doc.. I need real advice soon.. I am really stressed about this! Thanks!

Sorry to hear of your illness. We hope that you eventually, make arrangements in your schedule to visit you Doctor's office, clinic, or local hospital emergency room, soon.

However, until you are able to determine whether or not you are pregnant, we will not be able to offer you any advice. Home pregnancy tests are good, but blood tests (availible at your Doctor's office or clinic) are much more reliable.

lilqtkt,

I have to agree with bkdaniels here.

But your question was already answered here I believe.

Sorry to say, going to the doctor is about as real advice as you can hope to get. We can't diagnose you online. And most of us here aren't doctors anyway, we are just people who have had expereince and try to help each other out the best we can through the questions we ask each other. I understand how hard it can be to take off work, and lose money to go to the doctor. Believe me, we've had our fair share of money problems these first three years of marriage. You aren't alone out there in this knowledge. But when it comes to your health, sometimes you have to do it. And not all clinics are only open during the day. There are some free clinics that don't even open until after regular business hours. I would suggest looking into it. We all try to help as much as we can, but we can only do so much. If its "real" advice that you are looking for, a doctor is where you are going to get it.