What can I do to get her back?
Me and my Ex girlfriend dated for 2 years and then things started to take a little change in direction. Nothing to serious, we both were just kind of busy so we couldn’t talk as much as we used to; but I still loved her and wanted to be with her. So one weekend we decided to go do something and while I was driving she told me to park the car so we can talk. She explained to me that she thinks she wants to break up because she needs to find herself, I didn’t believe that one bit. We both cried extremely hard but time went by and I had to drop her back off at home.
Things were tough and days went by, but we still talked just about every other day because she told me she couldn’t live without me in her life. But as the days went by she started to change more and more. She started to think about all the little mistakes I made in the beginning of the relationship; nothing to big but just a bunch of little things, but she told me that she could never forgive me for the things I have done. She started getting angry and started to say very mean things that really hurt me. A lot has happened to me in such a short time and I’m going through a crazy time in my life right now and this is when I really broke down and did just about everything I have read not to do. I begged, I promised id change, I told her how much I loved her all the time, I told her she would never find someone that loves her as much as I do, I did everything wrong.
About 4 days ago she called me and told me she doesn’t think we should talk anymore. I asked her why this is and why she broke up with me in the first place, she told me that talking isn’t helping ether of us and that she just wants to be alone and just doesn’t want to be with me. With that being said she texted me the other day out of the blue to ask me something, we had a quick conversation but that was all and I let the talk end. She then messaged me the next day and thanked me for the birthday card I sent her 2 weeks ago. She has broken the NC rule a little bit but I haven’t.
But what do I do from here? I’m trying to give her space and leave her alone like she wanted. But I’m scared that this is going to distant us from one another. Am I doing the right thing? What do I have to do to get her back in my life?