He is unemployed and has a motorcycle and its like he thinks he's on vacation. He is always looking for a way to leave the house, go out woth friends or even just family. It bothers me because we never spend anytime together, he doesn't take me out (even when he had money). His last excuse is that we spend last weekend together (we only spent one day together, the rest of the weekend he was out or was sleeping). Every time I tell him something, he figts with me.

So why are you living with this ghost??

How long have you been together?

Take the keys to his motorcycle and tell him to take his pick. If he chooses the motorcyle have a bag waiting by the door.

Are you able to go with him some of the time? How is he getting money to go off so frequently?

If he doesn't respond to you stating that you would like to spend more time with him, to come to an agreeable compromise, you may end up having to rethink your living arrangements if it's not what you signed up for and find acceptable.

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Originally Posted by Frustratedwhim

He is unemployed and has a motorcycle and its like he thinks he's on vacation. He is always looking for a way to leave the house, go out woth friends or even just family. It bothers me because we never spend anytime together, he doesnt take me out (even when he had money). his last excuse is that we spend last weekend together (we only spent one day together, the rest of the weekend he was out or was sleeping). Everytime I tell him something, he figts with me.

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By chance is his name Greg?

No, sorry, I just work with a woman who is in the same situation as you are, and you described your boyfriend right down to the T.

So I will tell you the same thing I tell her, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it usually is a duck.

When people show their true colors, believe them.

I think you should move on, not move out(he needs to).

You can do better.