Hi friends,
I have this crush on a boy, right, and I only realized it recently. The trouble is that he doesn't know I like him and also he likes my best friend, who (might I add) kind of forced me to be her best friend. My 'best friend' doesn't like him but I don't know when he'll figure out that I like him. It's also kind of hard because my crush also tried to get this popular guy (that likes me) to ask me out only to me realizing that the relationship would never last. I'm keeping my crush as a secret, but how to get him to realize that I have feelings for him really stuck me in the mud. Heeeelllp!
Thanks,
CupcakeLover99

Hi,
It is a very difficult situation. However if I were you, I would try to make him notice the fact that your best friend is not interested in him. Then, when he accepts the fact that your best friend is not interested in him, try to be with him a lot, so as to know more about each other (and so, you can know if he is interested in you).
Hope I helped

Talk to him, tell him how your friends feels about him (about not liking him). Then, on another occasion bring up the fact that you would like to have something more than a friendship with him, he might say no or he might say yes, which ever one it is at least you won't be wondering what could have been for the rest of your life. And, if he says no, then you just go back to being friends, if he says yes, then have fun while you two are together.

Good Luck,

Javi

First off how can someone force you to bestfriends? Please tell me.

Secondly, whether you tell your "crush" about your "bestfriend" not liking him or not. It probably won't change the way he feels about you. Now, I am not saying it won't but its unlikely.

You can't make someone like you, or notice you unless they want too. Be yourself, if he's interested then you will find each other.

Rick

Well, she kind of always makes me do stuff for her, and she swears at me and when I go into a strop and walk away from her she comes to me and says that if I don't be her best friend she's tell the teacher that I'm bullying her but I'm not so yeah

Thanks sooo much for your answers guys! I took your advice and turns out he likes me and we're going out now together thanks so much you guys r the bomb! Xxx cupcake

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well, she kind of always makes me do stuff for her, and she swears at me and when I go into a strop and walk away from her she comes to me and says that if I don't be her best friend she's tell the teacher that I'm bullying her but I'm not so yeah

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How old are you all?

Congratulations... :)

Hi,
Same life here :( I'm going to cry right now!!

Well check out what I did about this problem... at the beach me and my crush and my BFF were diving I am better then her at swimming and faster then her in running.So when we were all swimming my crush kept looking at my best friends like his eyes were stuck on her. I acted like nothing was happening but deep inside my heart was crushing and breaking.He asked me to go out with him (hes just pretending that he likes me more but he's lying!) Then I told him No Im done with you and your acting I cried and said to him I never want to see you again my brother saw me breaking up with him and said your messing with my little sister? My crush said No,I'm not
Sorry it's a bit long but That's how I dealt with it

NO BODY MAKE FUN OF FRAGILE LOVE hi same problem here but I don't want to tell you how old I am OK I'm 8 but lets start there's a guy named Eric Nicholson (7)and I have a big crush on him but he only has a teeny tiny crush on me. He always asks me if he can be my bodyguard in games or when my cute evil little friend Sarah Gross (7) wants to chase me and take me to death town and make me into meat. But the thing is I ALWAYS PROTECT HIM when ever he's being chased by my friend's Jade Kupchancko (7) and Alicia Haxby (7) I TACKLE THEM AWAY IM PRETTY TOUGH and when playing soccer his friend Ocya Tipikin (OSI-A-TEE-PEE-KIN)(7) always kicks the ball to his stomach eye or cheek on purpose I was about to save him I WAS RUNNING TO HIM owww poor Eric. But instead of me he picked my best friend Tialandis Guinand (8) (TEE-A-LAND-ISE-GU-NANDE) but she does NOTHING for him! How could that happen I'm sad mad frusturated and CONFUSED! My friend Kyra Gathtier (7) has a crush on a guy named Simon Masilagin and she got her way were so oppisite!