Why does every man man I ever met only ever want one thing and never want to be with me in relationship. Am nice personality, am not full of myself and lot people say am preety and that. And then later on you see them holding hands and that with girl they really want to be with up town or wherever. I feel like one those girls who yeah I sleep with her but I wouldn't want be with her, go out anywhere with her. And don't sleep with them, but 1st or second time I meet them they make it clear. Am only 22 but see other peole/ couples out together all happy and that. Just makes me feel like ****. I change way I dress, act descent respect for myself and morals but always the same type men, no matter where you meet them. In space 5 months been out with 5 men at separate times and not one of them was desent just usual abusive sort emotionally. I don't think ever come across a man in years or ever who genally wants to get to know you and hopefully start relationship with you. OK I have dedency for going out with asians indian etc put also been with black, white and it was same thing

Maybe it's the type of man you attract? Not all guys behave that way. You could have just hit a rough patch... you could be putting signals out that give guys a certain preconceived notion... who knows? If you don't like a guy, don't have sex with him. If the guy doesn't want to get to know you, then quit talking to him. Simple as that. You will probably have to try multiple times before finding someone you are truly compatible with.

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Originally Posted by kitten2

why does every man man i ever met only ever want one thing

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Hello k:

It's like monopoly. You can't win if you don't know the rules... And, you, my dear young friend, don't know the rules of the sex game... Ok, here's the rules:

The most quick path to victory in THIS game is to (1) tell the truth. You want it AS MUCH as he does. We're WIRED that way, so I'm not guessing. Now, it's TRUE, his path to victory isn't the same as yours, but (2) accommodations CAN be made. In fact, they MUST be worked out because the goal of winning, is winning WITH someone... Deals aren't hard to work out. All you got to know is what you both want [see rule (1)]. So, (3) you give a little, take a little, strike a bargain, and keep it - forever.

If you have trouble with rules (2) and (3), refer back to rule (1). If rule (1) isn't true for you, see a sex therapist.

excon

I agree with KC, you just can group all men into one category. Most of us rather being a woman or a man have attracted the wrong person type of person. That person is usually a user out for themselves. Sometimes we our radar doesn't go off right away, but it will eventually, and that is were we need to make a choice as to whether we get out right away or continue to let them use us.
You don't have to be rude, but I would put into my persona that I expect a certain considerations when in a relationship. I wouldn't have any sexual relations until you and most of all he have voiced feelings for each other and real feelings don't happen right away. Good luck