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  • Oct 8, 2010, 05:00 AM
    ajinath
    My girlfriend has a boyfriend still she can accept me?
    I love so much to one girl, but she has a boyfriend , so that I'm very confused shall I tell her about my love or not? I don't want to lose her, we are good friends. Please help me I'm in very emotional stage, I love her lot...
  • Oct 8, 2010, 05:46 AM
    Cat1864

    She has a boyfriend so you do not tell her. If you cannot handle being just friends with her, then let the friendship go until you can.

    Taking a step back and distancing yourself from being around her will help relieve some of what you are feeling and allow you to look past her to see other females who are available. One of them might even be better suited for you than you think she is.

    No matter what you think of her current relationship, it is hers to deal with in her own way and time. It is not your place to add confusion or guilt to her relationship because you can't handle your own emotions.
  • Oct 8, 2010, 12:46 PM
    talaniman

    She has a boyfriend, so you respect that, and avoid losing a friend, by keeping your feelings to yourself, and coping with them in a mature way. I hope you have other friends, and not just her, if not, you better get some and have other things to do, that you enjoy, besides dwelling on a female who has a boyfriend.

    No doubt you will always have strong feelings of attraction to females that are not available to you. All us guys go through this. How you handle yourself is what counts. For sure you will find yourself attracted to many females that are available, if you give yourself a chance, and not get stuck on one who is not.
  • Oct 21, 2010, 12:00 PM
    dhuber
    You can tell her in private but just between the 2 of you. Chances are if she has a boyfriend she won't give you a positive answer but it will bring closure. Make it clear that you two can always remain friends. You don't know what her feelings are but just be prepared for any response

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