Im dying I did something wrong but I was by mistake I didn't mean it and the person I love said that he can't forgive me anymore and he can't trust me tell what to do to make him trust me again and forgive me I reallllllllly love him and I can't live without him I love him because he's my liiiiiiiiiiiife please I'm dying I need help :'(

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Well so we can help you tell us what you did that hurts him...

Hmmm I didn't really mean what I did I saw someone from the church and he wanted to talk to me but I didn't had time so he said I want to tell you information about something and I said not now and he asked me for my number and I gave it to him

But he's only someone from the church but my boyfriend got mad on me and he said that he can't forgive me and he can't trust me anymore:(( :'(

What you boyfriend is a really jelouse type well al I could tell you is that you showed try to explain it to him face to face ad if he doenn't lisen is just that he was looking for a reason to break up... if I was you I would just moe on...

Noooo I was on my way because me and my boyfriend were going to movies and I told him everything but he got really angry at me :( I don't know what to do to make him forgive me and trust me back :(((

And we didn't brake up we still together but he can't forgive me because of hat I did and he can't trust me :(

Well damm I been in this situation but I think my ex-bfs were dumm because they always forgive me... well tell your boyfriend this ''if you love me forgive me lets start all over and fix things because I'm not perfect I make mistakes and one of them was hurting the person I love and that's you... ''

But I told him and he said I did I forgave you alooooooot but this time I can't

I'm dying I swear by god I haven't been eating for yesterday and I'm sick too :(

Well just leave him and move on he don't deserve you because if you love somebody you will forgive him/her no matter what...

So you think its okay to suffer from his over reacting to an innocent exchange? I don't. I think you have apologized and explained enough, and if he can't forgive and say he is sorry for over reacting then you need to think long and hard about being with a fellow who makes you suffer for small things like this.

If you accept bad behavior, you get more of it.

Sort of like trying to understand why people keep using chat/text, and bad grammar and spelling, know it will be deleted as your other posts where.

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I know and it was my mistake and he didn't let me to explain more to him but I did I apologize and he said leave alone for a few days and I will see what I need to do what do you think? Is there any chance that he will forgive me and trust me back??

Sure he will, after he makes you suffer for an innocent mistake. You just sit, and wait for him to decide whether you are worth it, or not.

:'( I hope so because I'm dying without him :((

OMGosh, I was being sarcastic my dear, but it seems you put him above your own dignity, and self respect, and that makes this a very unhealthy relationship.

This time it was an innocent mistake by you, but what will it be next time? And there will be a next time.

No I did it but by mistake I didn't mean it and I promissed him that it won't happene next time becausehe is my life and he loves me true love but hhe said why did you do that :((

That's my point, he will turn everything, and anything against you, and when he gets mad or upset, it will ALWAYS be YOUR fault, never his, because in this case he OVER REACTED.

I know so what can I do in this case because I can't leave without him he's my life, my family he's everything in this world for me I done it before I tried to lose myself and I don't want it to happene again but if he left me I will please help me :((

Do you realize you sound like a desperate junkie who needs their dope??

I don't know and he being like that because my best friend loves him but he dosen't care about her but everyone knows that we are not together anymore but that's not true and promissed him that if he said everything is finished like it's the end of the line I won't stay alive because I love him , I love him because he's my life not I love my life because my life is him I hope you understand me :(:(

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i don't know and he being like that because my best frend loves him but he dosen't care about her but everyone knows that we are not together anymore but thats not true and promissed him that if he said everything is finished like its the end of the line i wont stay alive because i love him , i love him because hes my life not i love my life because my life is him i hope you understand me :(:(

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Sweetie, how old are you?

You seem very young. Trust me, when you are my age, you will realize that there are plenty of men out there.

This boy is not the one and only. You are consuming him way too much and losing yourself in the process.

But I can't move on I love him he's my life :( :( and I haven't even been eating from a few days :( and I'm sick

What mistake did you make? Im confused?

You gave some guy your number, is that the mistake?
Your bf's a meat head.

Why do you let someone treat you like this?

So your supposed to walk on eggshells so he doesn't carry on. Very controlling. Id be careful if I were you.

PS: He isn't your liiiiiiife. You are your own liiiiiife. Start living it without guys like him.