I'm getting married in a couple of months and I'm getting cold feet about it and am not sure about him but I do love him a lot should I drop the plans or what

Please explain why you have doubts about him, and tell us your ages, and how long you have been together.

My advice is to follow your instincts. If they are telling you to hold off, then do it. Its better to find out now, then later. There must be something about him that is causing your alarm system to go off. Don't just over look it, sit down and talk to him, tell him you need to wait on the wedding plans. If he gives you that time, with understanding, then more power to him.

It's not uncommon for someone be nervous about getting married. If you love him then tell him how feel.

Why do be believe that you have to get married.