Hi , I am with a girl at the moment and she said she loves me, I do believe her , but I think she loves this other boy also , she said he is her best friend , she took his phone and put in down her top , tagged him in one of her pictures on Facebook,and he does fancy her , e addmites it, but I think she likes him back , she is also always talking about him , and he sent her a picture on her phone with him with his top of, and she said that she don't know how to deleate it,

Does she like him also, Please help

How long have they known each other? It sounds like a good friendship and that, though he may 'fancy' her, she loves you. Does she have any other close friends?

Taken out of context those actions could seem like evidence of something going on, but it sounds like she was acting silly like people do, she was posting a picture and letting people know was in it, she was talking about a friend (probably not as much as it seems like to you) like friends do, and you didn't say what the context of the topless picture was. Boys have a tendency to run around with their tops off. All normal things that you wouldn't think twice about (other than the topless picture) if it was another girl.

Do you have any friends that you act silly with or tag in pictures on FaceBook? Do you hang out with your friends or have interests that give you some down time from the relationship and help you feel more confident about yourself? The better you feel about yourself, the less you will worry and find it easier to accept that she cares about you.

Have you talked to her about your concerns?

Yes, she obviously loves him too, but she should make a choice between you two. If she said that he is her best friend and that she doesn't know how to delete his picture, then it means that she wants him around her. Why don't you ask her if she has feeling for that boy? Tell her that her behaviour makes you confused. If she can't make a choice, then it would be better not get involved with her.

No , I haven't told her, because I think that it may cause arguments,and then I can lose her from that .

How old are you both?

People in relationships will always argue.
If you can lose her from that , there is not much hope any way.

Does anybody know a girl who doesn't know how to delete something from her phone?
She lied to you already.

I suggest you move on.
Not much here for you but pain.

I wish you well.

True , thanks, I shall :/

I am sorry to disagree, but she should not have to give up a good friendship if that is all they are to please an insecure boyfriend. Who or what would she have to give up next to keep him happy? I know too many people who are trying to control who their boy/girlfriends have as friends so they don't feel 'threatened' to agree with that concept.

I don't know if she lied about not knowing how to delete the picture or not. I don't know if she has tried or if she even gets enough pictures sent to her to have used that function. I don't know if that was her way of telling him to mind his own phone.

Jordan, talk with her. Don't accuse her. Listen to her like you want her to listen to you.

You sound kind of young and a bit insecure, and jealous. If you can't relax and take her at her word, then you shouldn't be with her.

Don't worry about the competition, that spoils the fun, doesn't it.

Do worry about your own jealousy and insecurities though, that's a turn off. So don't trip on her friend, or what he does because she is with you, and you have the advantage, because she wants to be with you.

Now put those fears aside, and enjoy your time with her.