hii am melii and I love my girlfriend ariel with all my heart... I,ve never felt this way before but a problem occurred in my house , I am forced to move to another country to live. How do I get my girl to understand that I love her but I have to go =(

All you can do tell her that you love her and that you don't want to move. Why is that she can't come with you?

How old are you two?

Am 15 and she is 18

am hurt and confused any suggestions? =(

Am leaving in couple weeks any suggestions?

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am leaving in couple weeks any suggestions?

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With all the electronic devices nowadays, it should be absolutely no problem to stay in touch with her.

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Melii : am 15 and she is 18

Melii : she has just finish school she say's she nopt ready to leave her family and I tried talking to her about it she say's if I love her like I say I do I would stay

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Where does she think you are going to live at the age of 15?

I agree but we have been good friends for some years now and we decided to make d relationship official.. staying in touch I s not enough for both of us an my feelings can't work with this

hmmmm... *sigh* =(idk she tells me I can come live with her but she has a big house hold and I doubt her parents are going to take me in, and money is hard to find and she doesn't even got a job

Seems you have no choice but to move as your parents say, and try to keep in touch, and hope that works, unless you can get a place to stay.

If you are not willing to ask her parents for help, then you have few options.

Hello Melii,

Maybe it's just not in the cards for you two to be together at this time in your lives.

I think that you should go and start your life there.

Stay in touch with her, through letters, text, phone, email, etc...

Who knows, up the road you two may meet again. Perhaps even be together.

For now, keep an open mind and let each other go.

Good luck.

Since you are only 15, you have to abide by your parent's rules and decisions.

Maybe this relationship was not truly meant to be. You will understand this later in life. You are still young now.

Also, if there is any form of sexual relations between you, depending on where you live, she could be found guilty as a pedophile and have a criminal record that will follow her for the rest of her life.

Maybe it's best to put distance between you right now. If the relationship was meant to be, she will be there for you when you reach the age of consent.

=( yh thanks

I am thiking about that but if I don't I guess so