Girlfriend won't stop talking to ex
You guys have probably seen this question a million times, but I feel I should ask it anyway
I recently got a girlfriend, it's been about 3 weeks. The only problem is that she talks to her ex constantly. He lives about 4 states away, and there's a reasonably good chance he's never coming here again, but it still bothers me. Let me tell you a little bit about their relationship:
Long distance. They were always yelling, always fighting. She would always come to me crying after a fight. He made her feel terrible all the time. I can't recall a time when she was happy.
I don't know why she talks to him, how she could talk to him. I have a plan to give her an ultimatum "I don't think I could ever be serious with you when I know you talk to him". I've asked random friends, and they think it is a good idea, and that it isn't unreasonable in the slightest for me to feel that way. What should I do? I feel like, when they're texting each other, that they're still together, and I'm the third wheel, just like a year ago, even if we just finished making out
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Is it in any way unreasonable to ask that? Am I just being jealous, or overthinking things?