HI, Whenever my girlfriend gets upset or angry she ignores me... I don't know why? If she is making any mistake then she never comes to meet me instead I have to go to meet her... I know that she loves me very much, I can understand her problem that she is afraid of her family but I am not getting proper importance... What to do?

Perhaps that's how she deals with conflict.

You say she is afraid of her family?
Can you give any more imformation?

As to you not getting proper importance,maybe her family comes first,it could be her upbringing or culture,either way I would suggest that you both find other ways to resolve a row.

Everyone deals with conflict differently, so don't think her reaction means too much.

What's going on with her family that makes her so fearful?

You expect more importance than her family? Doubt you get that my friend, but if that's the way she deals with her relationship with you, by you going to her, when there is conflict, I doubt that changes either. You could always stop going to her you know, if that's important to you, but she may never do as you ask, and that's a risk you have to take.

Is keeping her more important than getting your proper importance? What the heck is your proper importance any way??

Well... still we have so many problems like her classmates always complaint about her to the teachers... that is making me totally uncomfortable... I don't want to lose her but day by day I am getting mad on her

How old are both of you?

Very good question... I am 18 and she is 16

Everyone is saying that it is very hard to understand a girl. WHy people says that? What is that girl wants from boys... although boys are keeping them happy and making their life queen Size> I want boys;s suggestions and as well as girl's suggestions. I want to keep a unbreakable relationship status

Relationships are risks for both partners. I think it comes down to how well they work together, to get through good times, and bad, and how willing, and able they are at it it. There is no magic formula to follow, just a lot of hard work, compromise and sacrifice. I could go on and on, and we could do all the right things, and end up divorced after 50 years of marriage.

It's a risk for even the best of us. You just hope its all worth it. I know, not very encouraging is it.

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DITTO!

A relationship has to have the same idea from both partners. If a guy wants this and a girl wants that, then there are going to be hardships and fights. If after 50 years of marriage two people get a divorce then it would usually be because a HUGE ordeal. You not going to see someone married that long and have a fight over who washes the dishes and then get a divorce. What I'm trying to get at is bot people have to be able to accept the way another is feeling about certain topics. You always have to be able to meet in the middle ground. If he/she isn't giving in then be the bigger person and accept that they feel strongly enough about the topic and go along with it. If they are happy, you will be happy.

I 'm not sure about young girls, but I know what most big girls want from their boyfriends. A ring.

I was talking with her and her brother saw us... He didn't said anything to me but he scold his sister. I was asking for a break up when I was talking with her... But I was kidding. She took it seriously and her friend told me that she is ready for a break up too. I told her that I was kidding but she is serious... I am totally disturbed... please tell me something to say so that she will be all mine again.

I'm not sure why you thought it would be funny to tell her you wanted to break-up with her, but hopefully a lesson has been learned.

Give her a bit of time. Maybe write her a letter or send her an e-mail to explain that you were kidding and that you realize it wasn't a smart move. Express how you really feel about her.

However, give some thought as to why you asked for the break-up in the first place. Did you want to see her reaction, were you unsure of her feelings for you, is there a part of you that would maybe like to take a break but you paniced when she agreed so quickly and that made you think twice about it?

How old are you?

I am 18...