I'm 18. I Recently moved to Sydney to pursue my sporting career and while visiting my hometown met a girl 5 years older than me and I'm willing to say it was love at first sight! We began dating and have only been together for five months so far. Everything is moving so quickly but everything feels so right! As my job is extremely full on, sometimes it is hard to find the time to get home and visit. So we're thinking of moving in together in Sydney where she will be working and studying university and I will be studying and trying to further my career. I'm worried for her sake that we might move in together and if something goes wrong she's wasted her time moving for me. After all, living with the mrs is a first for me and I'm not sure what it's going to be like. Please tell me what you think.

Hi :) In my opinion you are rushing things.. I mean you are only 18, you should give time to time..

You are at the beginning of your life, take it easy, why rush things?

Hope I helped :)

I get the impression that you'd feel really guilty if she moved there and it didn't work out, so why take the chance with a new relationship?

Your relationship is really new... you need to wait a while before making that decision.

Why not wait, and see how things go, before you jump into something you know nothing about, with someone you know very little of.

Too much, too fast, crash and burn..

If things are great in a year, then think about it, but for now it's a very bad idea. Looks good on paper I bet. Look again after the thrill and excitement of a new relationship wears off.