Originally Posted by dixiegrl83
I've been in a relationship with this guy for like 5 years. I am 23 and he is not quite 21 yet. We have a 17 mo old lil girl together and have been off and on for sometime now. Mostly its him using drugs. I don't know what all he is using, in the 1st few years we were together it was only pot, then as years went by he'd quit and then I found out of other things. Overall we have a strong love for eachother. Thats why I've always took him back. But after Madison (our daughter) turned 7 mo he left again after like 1 yr and 1/2 sober...got with a bad chick and got all messed up. When reality hit him he came crying back and wanted us to be ok again. I let him back only to find him being mean again and lying about using again. He cried so much and says he will stop but I dunno if he will. He has so much in front of him and a family to support...My question is...am I blind? Does he really truly love me like he says and its this drug thing thats makin him crazy or does he really not care about me and the drugs mean more? Is it his age and does he still need to grow up? What is the best thing I could do for him? I told him he needs better, new friends and he has to get help or he will lose madison and me forever. Is there something more I should do to show him I care and want to help or is it outta my hands?:(
