My husband has a female friend that is 12 years younger... worry?
My husband is way too close with a female work friend that is 12 years younger and their work is a bar. He talks to her in the morning and all times of day. He will call me and then her sometimes. First let me say when we got together 18 months ago, he told me he needed to let her know about us. He claims nothing ever happened but he knows she had feelings for him and they work together and knew he would be bringing me around. Fine or though I thought, I didn't know he would keep talking to her. She is overweight and he uses that excuse of why I shouldn't worry. Recently I told him Im just not comfortable with how close they talk, I overheard him just talking about his problems etc... So I started digging on our phone records and after he told me he told her he just can't be that close anymore, that he wouldn't like it if I was that close to man, I noticed they are talking even more! He told me today, that he's not going to stop, she is just a friend and there are just something's he can talk to her about not me! Ive been so understanding through this all and this isn't our only issue. He said I should call her, I do not need to deal with this like that, Im not afraid to call her just think I shouldn't have to. Im ready to just call it quits! Am I crazy? He says I need to talk to someone.
Comment on Enigma1999's post
Thank you! That helps me, she is not a mutual friend of mine and my husband like other women he is friends with, nor does she want to be friends with me. Im not stupid or afraid to be alone agaain, Im so angry with him.
Comment on JudyKayTee's post
Exactly, I told him I don't care what she looks like it's the whole issue of emotional cheating. I have mentioned, so if she loses weight then I should be worried? Ridiculous. If she was not in love with him, I prob wouldn't care. He has a lot of friends