I am facing,the same problem. We ( I and My Huband) are staying in our own house but my husband's parents frequently come and stay here for quite long time and in this period she acts in front on him as she is his caretaker and she only loves him and he is still 3 years old. She feeds him with her hands and order me as if I am her maid servant but In front of my husband she says that she cares for me as her own daughter. My husband keeps busy in his work but in weekends he enjoys most of his time with his parents instead of me. We argue a lot on this but he never understands my feelings and thinks as I want to create distance between him and his mother. His mother is a very dramatic lady and does not like me at all. She says so many negative things for me to him so that he starts thinking negative about me and she is getting success in this. I and my husband love each other a lot but somehow we are not abe to stay happily together. The reason is his mom but he does not understand this. In fact he thinks his mom is the closest to him and best in the world and I am not good one. Please advise me how to attract my husband and how to become important to him more than his mom. How to stay happily together!