Well I know this guy and he's really nice and all its just someitmes I don't know if he even likes me. We have seen each other for 3 nights in a row and the third night I had sex with him. After sex I asked him what we were and he said we are "talkin". What the heck??

Did you know him from along time or just the 3 days

I think maybe 3 days was too early. He probably feels as if he can get it whenever he wants. Guys like to chase after things. They want what they can't have. I think its best to get in a relationship first with a person, then have sex. By being in a relationship that means he really do like you and it won't end up being just a one night stand...

Three days. Try to get to know someone for a year and a half. Then you will know if they stick around if they just want you for sex or not.

Joe

Some women are confusing too.

You that's weird... I hate it when they give you 1 word answers that don't make sense... and you I agree with the above.. 3 days is quite early (asumming you have only known him for 3 days ) if not, than you maybe you should ask him about it

I don't want to say you got what you asked for.. but you kind of did. You knew him for a short period and gave him what he wanted too soon. You should've asked him what you and he were BEFORE the sex not afterward. If it truly does bother you, then talk to him about it... if you still don't get the answer you're looking for then move on.

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Originally Posted by orbit

well i know this guy and hes really nice and all its just someitmes i dont know if he even likes me. we have seen eachother for 3 nights in a row and the third nite i had sex with him. after sex i asked him what we were and he said we are "talkin". what the heck???

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Haha I get it I think he was just trying to like make something funny of the moment