2.5 yrs later... with a new question
Great to see there are some familiar faces still giving great advice!
Wow, haven't been to this site in almost 1.5 years... Got me through my "life ending relationship" haha... Oh how things have changed. Went from a depressed mess to not caring either way about her or what we had. Got my life going, finished my degree realized my dream of becoming a police officer 6 months ago... Life couldn't be better... and to top it off she moved back to the city and asked if we could start over... there may have been mild satisfaction in hearing this but at the end of the day I just didn't care. I said no and that was that...
Anyway, here is a quick one for all of you... for some reason its been on my mind, when most wouldn't really look at it as an issue. I'll be 25 in 4 months and have dated quite a few girls since my break up. They have all been my age or within a year but no one has really caught my interest and I have ended all of them. My job occasionally brings me to the Emergency Room and while there last week I ran into an old acquaintance I had met at university. She was just starting her degree when we met and I was just finishing up. Anyway, she was working at the hospital and has 2 more years before she will be graduating. We had a pleasant exchange so I decided to ask her if she wanted to go for a drink... (drinking age in ON Canada is 19) she was game for it and we are going to get together this week. So to my question, I found out she is 20... big deal right? I'm 24 and she is 20... I will be 25 shortly so I look at it as 25yr old with a 20 yr old. I understand that maturity level means a lot and she seems on my level... that being said I have dated 26 yr olds that have the maturity levels of teenagers so I will see how it goes on that note. Guess my question is, does anybody see anything wrong with a 25 yr old dating a 20 yr old? I searched it on the internet and nothing even comes up for it, so I think it may all be in my head. Just wanted the opinion of some of my peers? What do you guys think?
Also, I have a feeling this may have something to do with it... My sister is 19, and to any big brother she has always been my LITTLE sister. And the fact that they are so close in age my be playing with my head.
Thanks all
NNG