Me and this guy start chatting on line he didn't know that I like him he told me up front that he has a girlfriend but she lives in another country so as we chat back in forth on the computer he wanted to know who I was because he had no idea,so recently I got up the nerve to go to his house ,when I got there he was shocked and didn't have no idea that I liked him we talked for awhile outside then he said we can go see a movie inside and talk so we did , then we got inside watch the movie he sat next to me and then he took me for a tour of his house after a while he was touching and kissing all over me and then we had sex until the next morning ,so is he interested in me even though he has a girlfriend?

That was quite an adventure! Do you live near each other? How long ago was this? Has he chatted with you since then? How old is he, and how old are you? (Sorry for all the questions, am filling in the blanks.)

Umm, yeah, he had sex with you, so I'm sure he was interested enough.
The bad part is this may be all he is interested in. After all he has a girlfriend, you know?

It says a lot that this guy has a girlfriend and he slept with you anyway. Like Shadowburn said, that may be all he's interested in (the sex)... why would you want to get involved with a guy who cheats on his girlfriend?

When he wanted to know so badly who I was he told me the last time he had sex was back in July when his girlfriend came down he said he isn't sure if she is having sex where she is living but he was honest with me day one that he told me is in his 40's I am in my late 30's he told me if this was going to be too much for me that he didn't want me to get my feelings towards him to change to loving him, I do not live by him but my mom does when we talked on the PC he said that my voice was turning him on he said he wanted to meet me and so I did, he spoke to me the next day he even going to spend time with me on my b-day he said he even bought me a phone card for my cell phone BEFORE HE Didn't KNOW WHO I WAS.

Sorry wondergirl , this just happened this weekend sat evening until Sunday morning we were up

I'm thinking he should break up with his girlfriend before you see him again. Would he do that? How long has he been with her? Are they engaged or at least real serious? And I'd certainly want to get to know him a lot better before having sex with him again. His being willing to abstain from sex in order to get to know YOU would certainly show he's interested in you. If he keeps hounding you for sex, well then...

He told me that they were first loves he was married to another lady for 20 yrs and the divorce last year he has pictures of the girlf in his house and a pair of her shoes at his house he mention marriage with her but no time soon,

He is using you. You are extremely naïve. This person is interested in you the same way a flea is interested in a dog. He is looking for a body he can use.

I am shaking my head. Of course he is interested because he has a girlfriend who has been away and he gets online and scores a hotty, has sex, feels better and he is so grateful for his luck.

When the lust wears off, or his girlfriend returns, his life goes back to normal and you can go back to trolling the NET for more partners.

Everybody wins. Is there anything else you need to ask??

Sorry for being harsh but do you really believe anything built on sex will last beyond the booty? Well I take that back because maybe he will forget his g/f for long enough to see that you are much more than just a roll in the sack, but that won't happen until after the sex has faded and you both can see what the other one is about.

I think you know he is just filling the gaps with you. How can you NOT know??

Babygirl100.

Did he influence that name? Maybe he is keeping count.

We at this site see this same thing unfold almost on a daily basis,. and as far as I know , not a single one, out of literally hundreds we encounter has come to a happy ending.

I honestly hope you can be the first to end up with a situation that you are happy and content with.

But if it came down to placing a bet on the outcome, I'd give odds at 75: 1 against.

Be cautious , there are methods to protect from disease and pregnancy, thank God.

But there is no way to protect you from the heartache, pain, and humiliation that seem to always be the final chapter, time after time ,after time.

I honestly hope you prove me wrong.

And by the way babygirl00, if you do become his girlfriend, make sure you never ever go away. But if you do, at least you'll know what he'll be doing

This is one of those circumstances were its good to remind its never good " to wear some others woman used panties". He is another woman's man.