My boyfriend of 1 year never wants to have sex.. I am a plus size woman , he says its not my weight but I wonder.. he was married to a small petite woman before me. Right from the start he acted like I wanted it too much ( 2 times a week) he said " we can't #%*^ all the time...in the begining he would fondle me then not want to have sex. he will tell me " if you want it just take it "or if your in the mood tell me and if I try that, he says he is not in the mood or says he is sick or tired.. not sure what to do. I feel he isn't attracted to me and that's why he shys away from it.

No, he would not be your boyfriend if he did not want to be.

Had he wanted a skinny person only he would found a skinny person.

He may have a lower sex drive than you do perhaps

Spice things up, when you get ready in the morning for work put on something sexy under your work clothes then when you are both home tease him a little, unbutton your shirt so he can see what your wearing under your clothes, works when my wife does it

Work out and get into shape. This seems to me like the obvious answer to this problem. If it doesn't fix it, you've got your for sure answer it's his sex drive that's low and you've got better health to boot.