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  • Sep 27, 2010, 07:52 AM
    Monkey11
    Confuse about whether he wants a relationship or not?
    So I've know this guy from middle school. We didn't talk much at all.I had not seeing him in years. I meet up with him about 6 months ago as he was in leave from Iraq and exchange numbers, now that he got back he came home we hung out for few days and he went back where he is station. We decided when he left that we are going to try and get to know each other and see where it goes from there. On top of all this he know I am going through a divorce. Is been about a month he is gone and I use to text him everyone morning good morning. Every text he would answer and we would talk everyday for hours. In both our past we have been hurt a lot, so I understand we need time to heal. I opened up to him and told him how attracted I was to him and how he made me feel so different and wanted to make myself a better person. So I was pretty blunt about everything. I know he is a busy guy. But is seem like after I told him he kind of backed off a little. I am so confuse he told me he likes me and that he is trying to open up to me. So the last 2 days I didn't text him because I thought maybe I should give him some room. He has not text me yet. What does that mean? You I wait and see what he does. I am very confuse like I can't figure him out?
  • Sep 28, 2010, 04:18 PM
    Devorameira

    Could mean that he's busy in the military. Sometimes a military man is on duty and unable to talk to anyone for several days or even weeks at a time.

    Just be patient and see if he contacts you later.
  • Sep 29, 2010, 08:55 AM
    Monkey11
    Comment on Devorameira's post
    Thanks that's what I been doing. I mean if it was not serious he would have not took me to meet his family rigth? I think I am going to play by ear. Its just hard because he is such a good guy and I sont want to let it slip by.
  • Oct 18, 2010, 12:44 AM
    saloom
    I think that he is very busy because he is in a duty but believe me if he is in love with you and wants you for him he will contact better than that because he will be afraid to lose you

    Love doesn't stop in the red line


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