Ok this is what is also happening to me. Im with my boyfriend and we either start having sex and or just fooling around with my body and then I suddenly feel overwhelmed in my chest, like the feeling of overbearing sadness that makes me want to cry. Ive never been on the pill but I have a weird period cycle. I believe It may be some sort of thins (that I currently can't remember the name of) But I've never been tested. Im really worried because It makes me doubt the love for my boyfriend. I also lose interest in sex after being all aroused and I don't know why.

How old are you?

I am 19, almost 20. I have had a similar issue, but have never really looked into it, I suffer from no diagnosed emotional issues such as depression, bipolar, or being manic depressive. Whenever I have an orgasm, whether it is through masturbation or intercourse, or anything else for that matter, I feel like erupting into a burst of tears. In fact, most of the time, when I masturbate, I do in fact end up crying. It's not that it feels great, right after I get this feeling like I have a hole in my chest, and the only way I can describe it, is it feels like how I would imagine my soul getting ripped out of my body feels. It's very emotionally painful almost. Do you have trust issues? That may have something to do with it, or maybe even worry. I would look at your emotional state at the time.

Because of the age restrictions for posting on the ADULT SEXUALITY board, I am requesting that no more answers be given until the OP gives her age.

Thank you.

I am 20 going on 21

Im 20 by the way. Im not entirerly sure exactly. Im new to sex with in a year and a half. Had only one partner so far and I am still with him. I have Depression issues but never really gone to see anyone about them. It could be up to many reasons. My ex Left me Heartbroken could be one. I still have hurt feelings about him but that's something that Ive kind of accepted as nothing that I can do with. I have strong feelings with my current boyfriend but we have our own issues and stuff but I want to be with him. I haven't felt sexual at all and my sex drive jumps form a lot to none in two seconds so I never want to have sex and even when I do think about wanting sex I suddenly just realize no I don't. My parents may also have something to do with it. They believe that every one should wait till marriage and I have kind of been influenced by this. I do feel guilty a lot but I went through nearly a year of having sex without this problem. I am attracted to my boyfriend and I do love him but every time I see him all I want to do is cuddle now a days. I would happily just stay with him without sex if My hormones weren't begging for it. I don't feel sad while masturbating though I feel bad after but sometimes I do see sex as a dirty things. I just feel odd sometimes. I know I suffer from some sort of depression but I'm not sure I can do anything about it

About all I can off is therapy. I think your problems are too deep and too rooted to be answered on a Internet Help board.

I would like to be more help, but I can't think of anything to suggest.

Yeah I was just wondering if it would be something medical anyone would know about Like I think I may suffer from endrimiriosis as my mom did. Heavy Period and as late having it every 2 weeks

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Originally Posted by sazaar

Yeah I was just wondering if it would be something medical anyone would know about Like I think I may suffer from endrimiriosis as my mom did. Heavy Period and as late having it every 2 weeks

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Hello Sazaar,

If I were you, I would talk to your family Doctor about what you are feeling/going through.

It's hard for any of us to tell you what is wrong. We can't diagnose you.

What you're going through could be many things.

Arrange a time to where you can speak to your Doctor.

Good Luck.

For the most part--you'd KNOW if you had endometriosis. Your periods would be extremely painful.

I would go to the doctor.

All right Will do Thanks