My girlfriend is chatting with an ex boyfriend but says they are just friends?

Girlfriend went to Vegas with her male friend, should I trust her?

I can't sit and tell you who is or who is not worthy of your trust.

This is not even a question of trust.. Though.

If she feels the need to run off with this fellow you will be the fool to accept it. It's not a trust issue it's an exclusiveness issue. This woman is not ready for an exclusive relationship because she would know that there is no way, going on a trip with a male friend is even optional.

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Originally Posted by Marriedguy

I can't sit and tell you who is or who is not worthy of your trust.

This is not even a question of trust..Though.

If she feels the need to run off with this fellow you will be the fool to accept it. It's not a trust issue it's an exclusiveness issue. This woman is not ready for an exclusive relationship because she would know that there is no way, going on a trip with a male friend is even optional.

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Yeah.. you can trust her as long as they are not alone at anytime. If they don't get too drunk. If they don't dance or go swimming. Yeah... Don't worry.:rolleyes:
Don't worry, "What happens in Vegas ,stays in Vegas".:eek:

The funny thing is... you don't really have much of a choice do you?

You accept it, and it bothers you and your okay with her but, your not okay on your own front.

You don't allow it, and she hates you, and causes a huge uproar.

Which decision will lead to a better outlook on the future, instead of the right now... hmmm..

-LCM

Put yourself in her shoes and ask whether she would be okay with you going with a female friend to vegas. Then evaluate whether this is acceptable or not. It's hard to judge the circumstances without any background information. Has this happened before? How long have you been dating?

A male 'friend'. So, does he have a girlfriend too? Wonder what she thinks. Perhaps if there is a girlfriend, the two of you should commiserate over a few pints.

The short answer to your question of whether to trust your girlfriend who went to Vegas with her 'male friend', is no.

The long answer to your question of whether to trust your girlfriend who went to Vegas with her 'male friend', is also, no.

YES, because she would be an ex the minute she told you she was going to Vegas with a male friend.