10 years in relationship... time to go?!
I have been with my now husband for 10 years married little over 4. We have 7 kids between us, 1 who isn't either one of ours but his ex wife's who had the child during their marriage, anyway I have ALWAYS been a wonderful step mom even to the child that is not my husband’s! I & my husband have been raising their son for over 6yrs now with NO help from his ex. The ex is constantly in our business, their kids are always telling her our business & telling her how much they hate me, how mean I am etc etc. My husband has always been a hard headed, straight to the point kind of guy, not always so sweet. Lately he has gotten so much worse, verbally he is getting out of control & he refuses to listen to how he is making me feel. He is always accusing me of cheating when I have been beyond faithful! We have a house together & a car (in his name) I have tried to work this out with him to get him to change his ways, to not call me out of name, to set his ex straight... But he refuses to, he tells me his way or the highway. I want to leave but am scared to be alone, I am not an ugly women, I have a wonderful job but have been so dependent on him that I wonder if I can do it alone! I only have messed up 1 time by lying to him about money, paid bills with a credit card he had but never did wrong with the card, he received all the statements to see that I paid bills nothing else! But he can’t get passed that, he has done way worse to me over the years!