My girl asked for a break and I want to get her back. Crazy story
I was talking to this girl for about 5 months. When we meet she just got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I asked her then if she wanted to be single for awhile she said she was fine. Over the past 5 months I have really falling hard for this girl, hands down best girl I have ever dated! About two weeks ago she started getting worred that it was getting to serious. Also at this time her group of friends started getting very close again. Her X and her share a lot of the same friends, they were not very welcoming of me. I'm sure she had little birdies in her ear. At the start of this past weekend we were having a fight about what was going on, everything still seemed fine. The next day she asked for a break. She said she wanted to back off for a bit and figure some stuff out. Saying she should wouldn't mind if dated other people but maybe no sex or nothing serious till she could clear her head. I told her there is no point in dating other people unless your looking for something real or to have sex, adding I only want to date her. Then I said don't want to be just her friend and I'm not going to sit around and wait. She cryed, we hugged, I walked out. I realize now that things were getting a bit serious and that's not really what I wanted. I don't like being told "lets take a break"(last girl that told me that had someone else lined up) but I don't think that's the case, maybe she did want to date others but I'm pretty sure she still has real feelings for me and just wants to be single for the first time in 3 years . Still, I gave her the ultimatum which probably made it far worse. We have not spoke at all in 4 days... I don't want to be to needy or clingy, she does want space and I want her to miss what we had and want to call me. However, I also need to let her know that the ultimatum was stupid and I was just being to emotional. I'm willing to allow her some space and I will just handle my business. How should I go about trying to tell her this and trying to get her back? My friends tell me this is all very crazy it's to late and to drop it, no help. I am going to try and win her back I just need a stratagy.