How old are you?

No, it is most likely an issue that you did not tell them or they did not ask how to do it. Are you not telling them what or how ?

I have the same problem, I have tried relaxing, and to be honest, I am relaxed, it just doesn't happen. I've been close a couple times, but I've read that some people go through phases in their lives where they won't orgasm, and it will pass. I hope that its true!

Before anyone else answers this question, we need the op's age.

Yes please give your age.