My daughter is almost 30, for 5 years she has abused alcohol, we tried loving and caring for her and her children... we still care for them... but she has not admitted her problem, drives drunk with children, I have spoke to aa member says I can't do anything until she admits, do I report her to police, do I take two older girls to my home, what do I do?? Its so bad now, she has new baby only 4 months, I am at my wits end, and also she hates me, feels so much anger towards me, and feels unloved by me, plays her dad and I off each other, she can also be violent to me, but not to kids, although they hurt seeing her like this... they love their mum... and so do I can anyone advise please

You go to Court and request guardianship - you do what it takes to keep your grandchildren safe.