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  • Sep 15, 2010, 07:36 AM
    fleshtone
    The mother is in the mental institute, dad is a drunk, 5 little boys two girls
    The girls are now prostitutes. The children are now in the age range of 35 to 50. So, little girls are now 41 and 44. What do you think happened to cause this results?
  • Sep 15, 2010, 07:40 AM
    Curlyben
    The "children" are now all adults and free to pursue whatever they feel.
  • Sep 15, 2010, 09:26 AM
    fleshtone
    I agree that they can pursue whatever they feel but whatever happened in that house as children formed the result. It is odd that both girls are prostitutes. Do I believe they were molested? YES! But that is my opinion.
  • Sep 15, 2010, 10:17 AM
    Curlyben
    BUT surely this is the old Nature Vs Nurture argument
    You are assuming that what happened in their childhood adversely effected their adult lives.
  • Sep 15, 2010, 10:34 AM
    fleshtone
    Comment on Curlyben's post
    YES!! I believe that what happened in those little girls childhood has effected their outcome. The 41 old has 12 children by 12 different men. She has a 31 year old child. I asked my friend about the father of that child and he grew silent.
  • Sep 15, 2010, 12:27 PM
    Kitkat22

    I believe children who come from that type of environment can still be successful and happy. They have to have the determination and the drive to want more than
    What they have been used to.

    I have seen kids from the worst environment you could imagine,grow into the finest adults you would ever want to know.

    It depends on the child. He or she can grow up to be whatever they want to be, therefore overcoming the abuse and environment. They'll always remember, it makes it harder, but if they want to they can overcome it.

    Counseling and a lot of "want to"
    Is what it takes.
  • Sep 15, 2010, 04:14 PM
    cdad

    Lets see. The girls (actually women) are prostitutes. And Im sure taking drugs. Doesn't matter what life you think they had. The drugs alone is enough to cause changes like that.

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