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  • Sep 12, 2010, 12:50 PM
    nightmare17
    My boyfriend and I want to have sex but I'm scared what should I do
    My boyfriend wants to have sex, and so do I but I'm scared to, what should I do?
  • Sep 12, 2010, 01:00 PM
    Kitkat22

    How old are you both?
  • Sep 12, 2010, 01:04 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Real easy, if you are scared you are not ready

    He needs to be old enough to pay child support if you get pregnant, and you need to be old enough to support and care for a child.

    No birth control is 100 percent
  • Sep 12, 2010, 01:05 PM
    ScottGem

    NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child.

    Also, depending on your ages and location, your boyfriend could wind up in jail.

    You have very good reasons to be scared. If something scares you, don't do it. If your boyfriend is pressuring you, dump him. He doesn't care about you only getting in your pants.
  • Sep 12, 2010, 06:39 PM
    Kitkat22

    Never let someone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Save your first time for someone who will be satisfied to wait.

    If you're underage you could very well put yourself into the role of an unwed mother
    And as Scott said according to your ages the guy could be in big trouble.

    Wait until the one you love comes along and don't give yourself to this guy who is pressuring you.

    You will glad you waited.
  • Sep 12, 2010, 07:21 PM
    tantan10

    If you are scared then you are not ready emotionally to take that step. If you're young you have plenty of time to go down that road in life don't let anyone rush you. Focus on the things you need to do in your life like school if you are still in. If he loves you he can wait until you are ready hopefully when you're married.

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