There is this guy I've been watching from afar, and only my best friend knows about my crush. It actually might be more of an obsession. I know that he's one year younger than me, a freshman, his name is Dallon, he's about 2 inches taller than me, and in first periods mens choir [i'm in third period mixed choir]. He's doesn't know anything about me, even that I exist. Well, anyway, two weeks ago all the choirs had a concert together. In our last song, Him and I had to stand next to each other because all the choirs were singing a song together. During the whole song, I could feel him staring at me from the corner of his eye. When I turned to look at him, he had quickly looked away, then he looked back at me while I hadn't looked away... and he smiled at me.

For the next couple of days, when he was around, I kept catching him staring at me while I was staring at him. Then, the day before winter break and he finally walked up to me and introduced himself [not that I didn't already know him]

Can someone please explain this to me?

Sounds like he wanted to know who you are.

Even though the two of you sung next to each other in the choir, he never had the chance to officially introduce himself to you. If the two of you grew up and got married and your kids ask, where did you and daddy meet, how does it sound to say, "in the choir?"

How romantic. LOL Nevertheless, he only wants to treat you right.

What was he supposed to say, let's sing a song? If you have a crush on him, just go with the flow and stop trying to be difficult.

Hope this answers your question!

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1. Datingfast.com, 2006. Chat-up women communicating interest - master friendly and relaxed contact

I believe that maybe you both have an eye for each other. Go with the flow. Do not become obsessive or pushy. Just enjoy the introduction and take your time and you never know, maybe both of you will enjoy each others company. What does this mean, obvously he had an eye on you too.

Joe

Sure it is very possible. That happens to teenagers, that happens to adults, that can happen to anybody. I know it may seem impossible but nothing is impossible and when this does happen to two people it should be considered an amazing experience.

Joe

If it goes well, Fr Chuck can marry you right here :D and we can be Godfathers to your children;) and they can grow up answering questions... Am I moving to fast for you? :eek:

Ummm... I don't think I'm ready for marriage... and I'm definitely not ready for children.

Always start as friends. It feels good to know there is a connection. That connection that you thought only you had, turns out this person was drawn to you as well.

Joe

SLX,

How very cute. Oh how I remember the days of sneaking a stare, and catching a stare in return. Sounds like this is a very nice boy... enjoy... go slow...

Guess what you want to know, is... is he interested... I think that is a Yes. :)

Thanks guys... but I don't know what to say around him. I feel awkward around him, But whenever I see him with his friends and he looks happy, I get all warm inside and I smile...

Take your time and get comfortable while you get to know him, remember there is no hurry, so just be yourself.

Perfect Tal.

Just be yourself SLX and I do believe you have something in common, the choir. So, if the opportunity presents itself, you could open a conversation about the choir. What you think?

And Smiling... is always a good thing :)

Seranade... whats that?. I'm scared...

Perhaps he knows you have a crush on him and was waiting for you to make the first move. You didn't so he did for you. Now your wondering what it meant. Perhaps you just thinking too much about this.

Just take things slow. Find who he really is before you start head over heels for him.

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Originally Posted by SLX

Seranade...whats that?...i'm scared....

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Don't be scared... Seranade, would be you singing a song to him. Is that right there Tal :p ? Tal, was just getting us to Smile :) We don't really want you to seranade him :).

There is no reason to be scared at all. Be yourself, relax. If and when you meet again just be casual. Take it slow, no rushing and you will be fine. Trust me.

Joe

He's trying to break the ice. Go along accordingly. Take things nice and slow and don't rush into anything. Make small talk with him when you see him and go from there.