She was 40 when we met I was 55, after 2 months of dating we decided on living together she wanted to get married and I said I think we should get to know each other at least a year. She explained she had an ex husband and they had been divorced for 8 years and had 5 kids together 4 girls in their twenties and a son 15 and that the father still comes around so she really can't have guys calling on her. After living together for 6 months she moved out we continued the relationship, we been together for 3 years.but her ex husband acquired hepatitis c and was in bad health and she said her grown kids said they need to take care of him because of his health and he had no where to go. We both live in los angeles. 4 months ago she had told me she wanted to move to Arizona where her sister lives or she would forever be poor arlene taking care of her ex. So 2 months ago she tells me she wants out that she can't do this love thing anymore that its not in her heart and that she doesn't know what happen that she feels dead inside. All of a sudden I call her and she says she is not in L.A. that she is in Arizona. I text her and say I can rent a car and be there by mid-afternoon the next day, and she says she wants time alone with her sister, I keep prying through text she finally sends me a text photo of a biker she married the friend of her sisters biker husband. In the end she admits her sister came to visit 2 months ago with 16 biker friends from Arizona and that's how she met him. And would set up her babysitter and take off to Arizona 2 days at a time in the last 2 months. I asked her what happen to all those text she sent me that she loved me sooooooo much and she loved me more that I loved her. Please tell me what happened. Oh this biker has a carpet business and of course there associated with 16 biker friends. Broken hearted and confused.

It's hard to say what happened, but if I had to guess, I think it may be that you were operating on different pages. She told you straight out that she wanted to be married, but when you hadn't married her after 3 years, I think she gave up on you.

She told you up front she wanted marriage, she couldn't of spelled it out any better. Well apparently she wanted a motorcycle too!!

You wanted time, she didn't.

You were honest, she wasn't.

You are lonely, she isn't.

You still care, she doesn't.

Go live your life and be happy with someone who really loves you "soooo much".

Good luck.

You had a chance to give her what she wanted, and you didn't, so she left, to get it. That simple.

Agree with everyone above. She wanted a marriage, and after 3 years between you and her ex-husband that she had to take care of, she understandably got tired of the "love thing". And yeah, Jesse James and his 16 friends came really handy.