Ok I have been with my fiancé for 2 years. He cheated on his daughters mother with me when she was still pregnant and ended up breaking up with her to be with me. I always wondered if he was cheating on me. Well he got a puppy who got sick from the other dogs that were in our home and in order to save the puppy he had to live somewhere else well my fiancé moved in with his daughter and her mother and our puppy and for the 2 months that he was there he would come spend the night with me and we'd talk everyday well about a month ago I found out that he had his ex give him oral while he was staying there and I feel like I can't trust him now and I don't want him over there but he has to see his daughter I'm just scared he's still cheating even though he doesn't have the time to do it... I'm just confused and need advice

Ever heard the old saying, "what goes round comes round"? This is just a taste of it. If you believe they only had oral sex you are naïve.

He cheated on his wife with you and now he's cheating on you with his wife. Turnabout is fair play.

Find an unmarried man next time.

If he wants to cheat there is always time to do it believe me. If he's done it once he will do it again no question about it. What kind of a person cheats on his daughters mother while she is STILL pregnant? If he's capable of doing that and not feeling bad about it he is perfectly capable to do the same to you...

You knew he was a cheater when you met him, so why are you confused now? Did you really think he would change for YOU?


Talaniman Rule- Stay away from any one that has an ex involved in their lives.

Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.

Talaniman Rule #1- Never ever get involved with a married person, ever never!!!!!!

Talaniman Rule- Get your own partner and leave the other peoples partners alone.

Talaniman Rule-Love yourself enough to never allow any one to treat you badly. If they do, LEAVE.

Talaniman Rule-Never wallow in your own sh1t!

Once a cheater... always a cheater

Why would you even expect fidelity from a man with a history of cheating? It doesn't take much to know that cheating is wrong, but cheating on a pregnant wife is doubly wrong.

It's wrong of you to have even gotten involved with him in the first place.

Guys this thread is from a month ago and sadly the OP has never returned :(

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Originally Posted by CarrotTalker

Guys this thread is from a month ago and sadly the OP has never returned :(

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I agree, but sometimes people read and not repost.

Cheri, he probably got more than oral from his ex. It was just like the old times when he was there "trying to save his puppy". Never heard that one before.

Anyone who will cheat WITH you, will cheat ON you. What did you expect? For him to change overnight? No way, no how. Find someone you can trust to invest your love into.

Good luck.

I hope you have left him before you become the pregnant one he cheats on.

Consider yourself fortunate that at least you found out what he is really like before you married him!
Do not ignore the red flags!!