I am hindu age 20.. I am in love with a guy aged 27 hindu, and he belongs to sc... we hv to face problem such as 1. age differnce 2. caste community 3. height and colour 4. status 5. profession and finanacial background..
He wants to do register marriage as early as possible since my parents are searching marriage porposals for me... hw can I convince him to postpone the marrigae
Or how can I convince my parents regarding my love... I hv clearly specified the problems I will be facing later.. so friends do help me out for my family is very orthodox, adamant.. I want my love and also my family... do help me out..

Say NO to all your parents choices, and tell your boyfriend that unless he can answer some of your issues, he is in the NO WAY category too! Be stubborn. Women are good at that. Stick to your own convictions.

Thanks for your reply... but can you be still more clear... am counting my days can wait till may 2011 then have to open to my parents about my love...

Thanks for your reply... but can you be still more clear... am counting my days can wait until may 2011 then hv to open to my parents about my love...

Spare me the chat/text please as that's not my native language but I meant to say to you to reject all the choices your parents present to you, and suggest to them the one you want after all their choices are rejected, and tell the one you want he has to answer your questions or be rejected along with the rest.