I am in love with a married woman. Shall I get her?

You don't.

You leave her alone,you do not pursue her.

She is off limits.

If you can't leave her alone you would always ask her husband!

Ask her husband if she is available. He would know best.

Is she willing to divorce her husband, leave her family to be with you ?

How are you "in love" how long have you been dating her

The way you phrased your question makes me think you are looking for a fortune teller. I am not one, but I can tell you that the one fact you gave (she is married) is enough to know this relationship isn't one you should pursue.

I can tell you that if you let her and the fantasy of a future go, the love that you think you feel at this moment will fade as will the hurt and pain.

If you get involved in things that you enjoy, you will meet other women who are available. Some of those women might even be more suitable to be with you than you think this one is. One of them might even love you as much as you might love her. That is something that only time and living can turn into a definite.

Good luck.

Leave her alone. Period.

No you shall not and if her husband finds out you shall probably get a few bruises.

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Originally Posted by rishikant

I am in love with a married woman. Shall I get her?

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No.

She is married.

If you were married to someone, and some guy came on AMHD to ask if he shoud "get her", how would that make you feel, if you found out?