I have known this guy since a really long time, and we became really good friends. Last year we had a class together. Each time we were taking the bus together and we were talking for a very long time! I feel comfortable with him and we really have a great chemistry. He is always so kind with me, but I don't know if he is like that with other girls. First, I was considering him only as a friend, then I realized I had feelings for him. I think he may feels the same way because he went to my birthday for the last 2 years, even though he doesn't really know my friends. He stayed with me the whole time (we went clubbing, but we didn't dance together and closely because I know he is not comfortable doing this with a girl). This year we don't go to the same college, but we still see each other 2 times/week in the bus/metro because we live almost on the same street. I really like being with him and I would like to go out with him. Sometimes I ask him to go out with me and my friends, but it is only for a school party or something like that. I am afraid to make a move because I don't want to ruin our friendship. On the other hand, he is kind of shy, so I think that if I don't say anything, he won't ask me out. I don't know what to do, he is the most perfect and awesome guy that I know. BTW he never had a girlfriend before, and never kissed a girl. He knows that I have more experience than him in dating, however I don't have a lot. I have been dying to know if he loves me too. We are both 19. THANKS so much for any help!

How old are both of you?

We are 19

I think you should just have a nice long talk and tell him how you feel. You may be surprised that he feels the same.

Since you know he is inexperienced and shy,
You ask him out.

I will bet it makes a most favorable impression on him
And breaks the ice which may make it much easier to start asking you out.

He is probably working up the courage , or trying to and if you relieve him of this , it could be to your advantage.

I wish you well

Thanks for your answers! I'll try to talk to him

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Originally Posted by Jess0889

thanks for your answers! I'll try to talk to him

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Don't just try do it. Wear a nice cute, but modest outfit. Let us know how it goes... Oh to be young again.:)

I spoke with him. I kind of told him I would like to go out with him. Well it was so obvious because I was so nervous, but I don't really understand his answer. And I didn't have news from him since I told him, 2 days ago. We went to the restaurant with my friends, and when I was alone with him I finally told him. Then he told me he should have more courage too himself. He told me he was not used to these things, and that he really enjoyed the evening we had. And some other things not important. What does it mean? I'm so stressed out, I don't know what to think, and what I'm going to say the next time I see him.

I think he told you he is scared and really doesn't know what to do about your feelings, or his. Keep talking.