I cheated on my boyfriend of three weeks last night while I was out getting messed up. He found out through a friend of his; when he came home I realized he knew. We've been pacing, avoiding each other, but we have discussed it a little. I've said things like "I'll do anything to regain your trust if you could can find a way to forgive me". I can only apologize so many times, I know this and I guess I'mfinished with apologizing and trying to talk. What's my next move?

To me, cheating is something that is not forgivable. You can try to regain his trust, but don't be surprised if he decides to break up with you.

I would really work on the "out getting messed up" part before you should even have a relationship. I'm not trying to be mean, but that seems to be the problem:)

It is hard to forgive, but you have been only together for 3 weeks, so it could happen. It sounds like the relationship wasn't worth saving if you cheated that quickly:confused:

I think the ball is in his court, and its up to him what the next move is.

"Out getting messed up" and ended up having sex with someone. You need to grow up a bit and learn how to not get messed up.

You really don't need a boyfriend. In fact if I were him I would be a little leery about the kind of STD
You could bring home.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think the ball is in his court, and its up to him what the next move is.

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Oh LOL, I understand what you meant now:o

To be honest if you have been goingout for three weeks and you cheated why would you or he bother to try work things out?

Was this typo did you mean 3 years?

Tell him to come on this board so I can tell him if he does not break up with you, he is stupid.