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  • Aug 30, 2010, 07:03 PM
    giggle_monster
    Should I forget my feelings for him or not?
    Well as you know I got a new problem and don't know what to do about it. So I was thinking if you would help me. I'm a junior, 11th grade, and there is this guy I like which is a freshman, 9th grade. We were friends and hanged out a lot. Then a few days ago we went out and now today he wrote me a note that said he was dumping me and that he didn't want to hurt me. Well he did, I cried a lot today. I cried in 6th hour and when I was riding to the bank. Well I wrote him back and I forgot most of it but the stuff I do remember is: I told him I wanted another shot, that he hurt me, and that I really liked him. When he text me today he told me couldn't give me another shot. I asked him why and he said because but nothing else. He told me it was because he couldn't date anyone older. I told him I have been crying. He told me he was sorry and that he really liked me. I think we are friends and we still talk. I don't know what to do, I really like him and his kisses were really good and addicting or I couldn't get enough of him kissing me.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 07:05 AM
    Homegirl 50

    Don't sound or act pityful. You're getting bent out of shape over a what 13/14 year old.
    The boy does not want to date you. He was honest enough to tell you, now you be the older mature one and deal with it.
    Life will go on.
    You like him and are addicted to his kisses, that's it. You'll survive.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 07:10 AM
    Kitkat22

    Move on! Crying makes him feel empowered! Find someone your own age.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 04:13 PM
    giggle_monster

    I know I should move on and I know I will survive. I kind of told him that I'm addicted to his kisses. And I miss him kissing me. I'm trying to move on. It's not as easy as it sounds.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 05:57 PM
    Homegirl 50

    I know it's not, but for your own good, you must
  • Aug 31, 2010, 06:11 PM
    Kitkat22

    Forget him... I use to be addicted to cigarettes but they they were bad for me and everyone around me. I stopped.
  • Sep 1, 2010, 06:13 PM
    giggle_monster

    I am. Do you think I should stay away from him for a while? I think I might stay away anyway.
  • Sep 1, 2010, 07:19 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by giggle_monster View Post
    I am. Do you think I should stay away from him for a while? I think I might stay away anyway.

    He doesn't want to have a relationship. Move on and enjoy being young.:)

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