I'm confused on what to do we were both horny and we said it would be easy to just be bi at the momrnt srry if that offends any one but any way we were scared but we made out and she put me ontop of her it felt good when she touched me but I don't know if that was hormones or her! I've been confused for a while bcause we've tried to lick each other to just because we were playing truth or dare dirty version on the I touch so *** give advise I don't need critisisem OK just advise

Advise 1, This site does not permit chat speak. We type in full words and sentences here.

Advise 2, you are at a point where you are becoming aware of your sexual identities. It is not uncommon to want to experiment.

Advise 3, You need to be VERY careful with your experimentation. At your age, the consequences and entanglements etc. of entering a sexual relationship is very, very difficult. You are seeing this for yourself by your feelings of confusion.

Advise 4. Its not really clear what you want help with. Dealing with sexuality? Your confusion? Your relationship? What.

Advise 5. You really need to back pedal on your sexual explorations until you are older and can cope with them better. You also should be staying away from sexual intercourse with anyone as that can lead to very dire consequences (i.e. pregnancy).

Twelve years old , that's the time
Your body starts to change and you have all different kinds of emotions.

First, you are too young to be experimenting with a male or female.

There are many things you might face if you do. The loss of a friend due to embarrassment over the encounter.

Yourself esteem.If either one of you ever get upset with the other
Who knows who will tell on the other.

Kids talk and sometimes they add a little to the story to make it sound worse. Remember that.

Wait until you're old enough to date and wait for the right person to come into your life. It will be time to date when you're in High School and then wait till you're old enough and you're sure you're in love before you jump into having sex.

I got a few words of advice for you.

1. Learn to type just a tad bit better. It was hard enough trying to decipher what you were saying.
2. Yes, your body is starting to change and develop. Your hormones are starting to flare up and you might be noticing the same or opposite sex.
3. This could be a Bi-Curious moment. You never know. Some people have them and it goes away. For others it doesn't.
4. If you liked kissing your friend, then that's great. There's nothing wrong with it. Just follow what makes you happy and don't try to change it.
5. However, you are a bit young, but I know you don't want to hear that nor listen to me. I did that as well when I was 12. However the world is changing and children are noticing the opposite or same sex earlier than back 50 years ago.

Long story short. Just do what makes you happy. Follow your feelings and don't try to change them. If its your hormones, then its your hormones. If not, oh well. So good luck in your quest. I hope I answered your question.

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Originally Posted by Lyingsuns3t

Long story short. Just do what makes you happy. Follow your feelings and don't try to change them. If its your hormones, then its your hormones. If not, oh well. So good luck in your quest. I hope I answered your question.

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You really have to be kidding! Telling a 12 yr old to do what makes them happy? I understand if you are trying not to make her feel guilty about possible homosexuality. But a 12 yr old has little if any idea of the consequences of their actions. It would be very nice if we could all just do what makes us happy. But the fact is there are realities and consequences that need to be faced. A 12 yr old, or anyone for that matter, cannot just follow their feelings. They need to think with their brain, not just their heart! Something you didn't seem to do here.

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Originally Posted by Lyingsuns3t

I got a few words of advice for you.

1. Learn to type just a tad bit better. It was hard enough trying to decipher what you were saying.
2. Yes, your body is starting to change and develop. Your hormones are starting to flare up and you might be noticing the same or opposite sex.
3. This could be a Bi-Curious moment. You never know. Some people have them and it goes away. For others it doesn't.
4. If you liked kissing your friend, then that's great. There's nothing wrong with it. Just follow what makes you happy and don't try to change it.
5. However, you are a bit young, but I know you don't want to hear that nor listen to me. I did that as well when I was 12. However the world is changing and children are noticing the opposite or same sex earlier than back 50 years ago.

Long story short. Just do what makes you happy. Follow your feelings and don't try to change them. If its your hormones, then its your hormones. If not, oh well. So good luck in your quest. I hope I answered your question.

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Terrible advice! These are children! I would make a wild guess and say you have no children. I believe you tell them what they want to hear.
That isn't what we do here. We give advice to these youngsters in order to help them not make a choice which could or will ruin their lives.

Telling children of this age and immaturity to "go for it" is terribly wrong.
You should think of the consequences before handing out such unwise advice.