Trying to conceive after miscarriage, no luck.. confused, ovulation predictiors?
Hello everyone, my husband and I have been trying to conceive ever since we lost our first baby on may 17 of this year at 6 weeks, 3 days, and with no luck so far. We got pregnant on the first try when we did conceive our angel baby, which a understand wasn't exactly the most common thing when trying for a baby, and I understand that it may take longer this time, but I can't help but be concerned. I'm doing more than ever now to optimize my health and chances of conception, but nothing seems to be working.
I just started using ovulation predictiors this time around, and I'm very confused at this point. I started using them on Thursday the 26th and got a very very faint, almost nonexistant second line, the next day it was a little darker, and the next was pretty dark, but not as dark as the control line. And today the line went down to being almost non existent again... if my cycle is spot on I would have ovulated yesterday, but the line just wasn't dark enough.. could that have been my day, or are my levels just fluxuating and I'm still in the game? Any advise on this would really really be appreciated.
Another thing I am very concerned about, my (1) cat recently got a bad case of fleas, and as a result our house is infested. ( I seriously don't know how, as she NEVER leaves the house) we've had to bomb the house twice, once last month, before my fertile time, I came into a little bit of contact with it, and am convinced that's why I didn't conceive that month. And once today, in which I didn't come near it. My husband bombed while I was at work. How safe is it after the bombing? And what do I need to do about being around other flea killing products? I don't want to do anything that could potentially harm me or any little passengers I may or may not have abord.
Any advise on anything would really help me out. We're devastated about our loss, and would love nothing more than to fill our empty arms. ( our hearts will never be empty, we will hold on to the love of our first forever.) thank you all so much.
-an angel's mommy
An angel opened the book of life,
To plan our baby's birth,
But then she whispered,
As she closed the book,
Too beautiful for earth.