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  • Aug 29, 2010, 11:59 AM
    mandy1989
    boyfriend added ex on Facebook? Should i say anything
    so me and my boyfriend have eachothers Facebook passwods and last night he went to a bar I woke up this morning went on his facebooka and he had added his ex I don't know if he saw her there or if he just randomly added her but I don't know if I should say something about it? I know that if I added an ex he would have a problem with it. But I just don't know if I should wait and see if its more wait until they actually talk or just say somethng now
  • Aug 29, 2010, 12:05 PM
    redhed35

    What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

    Ask him about it,it may be innocent but you won't know unless you ask.
  • Aug 29, 2010, 12:17 PM
    Enigma1999

    Hello Mandy,

    I agree with Redhead. I would ask about it.

    I think that Facebook is a good vehicle for staying in touch with friends and family, however, Facebook can be very dangerous.

    This is a perfect example of how fb can be dangerous. It can build curiosity.

    However, it can be simply innocent.

    A couple of questions.

    First off, why do you both have each others passwords?

    Why do you feel the need to even go into his account?

    This ex of his, how long has it been since they separated?

    Please answer. Thank you.
  • Aug 29, 2010, 12:36 PM
    Homegirl 50

    I don't know why you have each other's password. Why would you need to get into the other's page?
    Ask him why he added her, then you'll know. It could be innocent.
    My ex husband is on my friend list. It's no big deal. I don't check out his page and I doubt he looks at mine. We do send a message every now and then, send each other a birthday or father's greeting.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 03:43 PM
    talaniman

    I guess the wife and I are really weird, because when we have questions we just ask each other.
  • Aug 31, 2010, 03:47 PM
    lovinu88

    Well the fact that you actually got on his Facebook tells me that you don't trust him.

    You can't have a relationship with someone if you don't trust them.

    If it bothers you really bad, just talk to him about it.

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