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  • Aug 27, 2010, 11:31 AM
    tw8732
    Can a 17 year old dating a 18 year old in Illinois
    Can a 17 year old date a 18 year old in the state of Illinois
  • Aug 27, 2010, 12:35 PM
    beachloverjohn

    Not a good idea. Never a good idea for an adult to date a minor. Even if you are doing nothing wrong, there is always the chance of the 17 year old saying you were inapproriate. Be safe, stick with 18 or over.
  • Aug 27, 2010, 12:47 PM
    Kitkat22
    The age of consent in Illinois is 17. But kissing someone under the age of 18 (if you are 18+) is legal as long as it isn't over 5 years of age difference. Sexual acts with a minor are punishable by law (Doesn't have to be penetration to be considered sexual).
  • Aug 27, 2010, 12:58 PM
    ScottGem

    There are no laws governing dating in most of the world. The only laws refer to sexual activity. However a 17 yr old is still subject to her parent's control. So the parent's would have to approve.

    I see no problem otherwise.
  • Aug 27, 2010, 01:20 PM
    zelophehadwebster

    There isn't any law in USA which can forbid you doing that.
  • Aug 27, 2010, 01:21 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zelophehadwebster View Post
    There isn't any law in USA which can forbid you doing that.

    But the parents can forbid it.
  • Aug 27, 2010, 01:22 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zelophehadwebster View Post
    There isn't any law in USA which can forbid you doing that.

    Go to the web and look up the Illinois Laws on dating. Are you a lawyer?
    There are no laws against DATING. There are law regarding sexual contact, but that's a different issue. However, since the 17-year-old is a minor, Mom and Dad are in charge. If they say she can't date a 20-year-old, then she can't. If Mom and Dad are okay with you dating, then there's nothing for you to worry about.

    Some guys would rather face a firing squad.. than an angry Mom and Dad.
    In our house, we were the law.
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:30 PM
    tw8732

    What if my sister in another state threaten my boyfriend to report him because am 17 and he's 18 years old.. can she do that?
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:32 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tw8732 View Post
    What if my sister in another state threaten my boyfriend to report him because am 17 and he's 18 years old..can she do that?

    I's according to which state she lives in.
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:34 PM
    tw8732

    I don't live with her or she don't have no type of guardianship over me.. but she is in GA
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:43 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tw8732 View Post
    What if my sister in another state threaten my boyfriend to report him because am 17 and he's 18 years old..can she do that?


    KitKat just told you there are no laws against it. There is nothing for your sister to report.
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:45 PM
    tw8732

    All right thanks very much
  • Aug 28, 2010, 02:59 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tw8732 View Post
    alright thanks very much

    Look up the age of consent laws in Georgia. If her parents forbid her then she''ll have to wait until she is eightteen.
  • Aug 28, 2010, 09:49 PM
    tw8732

    She not my parent.. she is just a sibling
  • Aug 28, 2010, 09:52 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tw8732 View Post
    she not my parent..she is just a sibling

    If she tells your parents, they can say No.
  • Aug 28, 2010, 09:53 PM
    tw8732

    My guardian don't care.. but it is actually 16 years old in GA
  • Aug 29, 2010, 04:13 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tw8732 View Post
    my guardian dont care..but it is actually 16 years old in GA

    Do they live in GA? If not, then why would GA laws apply? To summarize this. There are no laws that govern dating. She is above the age of consent so he wouldn't get in trouble for sexual activity (though I do not recommend they do so). Her parents do have the right to prevent him from seeing her. So the only trouble would occur if they do that.
  • Aug 29, 2010, 11:21 AM
    Kitkat22

    You asked about the laws in Illinois.

    Then you ask if your sister who lives in Georgia can get you in trouble.

    Your question was about Illinois
    And then Georgia laws.
    Maybe I'm confused, but do you live in Georgia or Illinois?

    I'm no lawyer but are you in Illinois planning on going back to Georgia?

    Read ScottGems post again. It clears it up.

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