Hello,

My wife loves to perform oral sex on me while turned around so that I can "return the favor."

Pleasuring her orally turns me on incredibly, and I sometimes like making her reach orgasm as much as, or more than, intercourse.

But when in the '69' position, I just don't feel very stimulated, I never have with any partners. Her tongue on the top of my penis feels OK, but not great, and it won't get me to climax.

Am I, or is she, doing something wrong?

Thanks!

Nothing abnormal about that.
A matter of what you like and don't like.

Have a good long talk with the wife and explore specifics. You both may be better off for the exchange of information.

Communication is a path that should be open in all aspects of a relationship to keep things running smoothly.

Communication includes things like , " Oh ya baby! That's the spot!"

I wish you well.

Different strokes for different folks. It doesn't mean that either of you are doing anything wrong, it just means that this position doesn't do anything for you.

Can she get you off orally otherwise? If so, than it has nothing to do with her skills or yours.

Let her know that 69 isn't something that really floats your boat. Like Martin said, communication is very important. :)

Stick with 68 then. It's 69 where you owe one.

Sometimes it's just about the focus, it can be nice to put full attention on what you are giving or receiving.

Added to which different partners fit together differently, we come in all shapes and sizes, not to mention levels of agility (is that my age talking?). It's fun to experiment but it's also nice to just know that some things work better than others for each of us.

Nothing wrong with either of you if certain things aren't top of your hot list, just discuss as the others have wisely said. If some things are more to one person's taste than the other, then just knowing that can mean that when you each get 'treated' to your favourites you really appreciate the favour. :)