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  • Aug 23, 2010, 03:19 PM
    dude21
    Is my girlfriend pregnant? HELP!
    In the begginning of August my girlfriend and I were touching genetals. Rubbing, Grinding, whatever you want to call it. I didn't ejaculate at all but she got scared so I bought her the plan-b pill. 2.5 weeks later, after she ovulated, we had sex and I used a condom. Even though I used a condom I still pulled out and ejaculated in the condom. Because I finished quickly and was still arroused we decided to grind with the condom on. When we were grinding with the condom on, both naked, we noticed it had slipped up and she was rubbing the base of my penis. She freaked out because I had ejaculated in the condom and her vagina was rubbing the base so we called 8-10 pharmacist and asked the affects of taking the plan-b pill 2 times in one month and was told everything would be fine and it still has the same affect. So within the first hour we went and got/took plan-b. I just need to know other opinions of people on if you think she will become pregnant. Thank you.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 03:26 PM
    valbaby

    I think the chances would be slim. Unless you noticed some of your semen leak out of the condom, and go into her vagina, then that would mean there was technically no contact with your fluids. But still, better to be safe.
    Has she considered going on birth control?
  • Aug 23, 2010, 03:31 PM
    dude21

    Well we did plan-b within the first 24 hours twice. Will that play into it? And we have talked about it but she is finding it hard to get past her mom on that one.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 03:58 PM
    dude21

    All those reading and/or looking at this post please answer
  • Aug 23, 2010, 04:19 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    No form of birth control is 100, including plan B

    So is there a chance, yes,

    Condoms are not 100 percent even when used correctly.

    So while it is a very very small chance, yes there is a chance.

    It is very obvious you know little about pregnancy, and should not be having "grinding" and sex until you do much more study on it.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 04:41 PM
    DoulaLC

    When you said two and a half weeks later, after she ovulated... are you talking after a period or does she know when she most likely ovulates?

    Regardless, odds are very slim she will be pregnant. However, certainly use some sort of birth control every single time to decrease the odds even more.

    Just a tip: once you ejaculate, even into a condom, do not reenter her vagina. Peeing or washing also will not guarantee sperm are not still present. Just one of the main ways couples misuse condoms.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 04:45 PM
    dude21

    She knows when she ovulates. So It was after she had completely ovulated. I didn't reenter her after ejaculating. Jus grinded. Thank you so much for replying.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 04:52 PM
    DoulaLC

    If it was indeed after she ovulated, which the egg is only viable for about 24 hours, then there is no way she would become pregnant.

    The wording of it being "after she completely ovulated" still leads me to wonder whether when she has her period and when she ovulates (two different times in a cycle) are being confused. Perhaps I am incorrect, it is just the wording, and she is fully aware.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 04:54 PM
    dude21

    She is supposed to start today. She knows when she ovulates and has shared that with me. Also since she took plan-b twice can that delay her period?
  • Aug 23, 2010, 05:04 PM
    DoulaLC

    Yes, it can definitely alter her period. Did she have some bleeding several days after she took it?
    If her period is off, give it a week or so and she can always try a pregnancy test if it still doesn't show.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 05:11 PM
    dude21

    She did not and okay good to know. Thank you so much! She's supposed to start today but if she doesn't I shouldn't worry?
  • Aug 23, 2010, 05:22 PM
    DoulaLC

    You will even if I told you not to... :) Periods can be off a few days here and there for not apparent reason. If it doesn't show after another week or two, then she should try a pregnancy test. If she did ovulate about the time she thinks she would have, she wouldn't be pregnant from sex two and a half weeks later.
  • Aug 23, 2010, 05:24 PM
    dude21

    It was 2.5 weeks after the first time she took plan-b. it was about a week after she ovulated.
  • Aug 24, 2010, 02:32 PM
    DoulaLC

    The only way a woman can become pregnant is to have sperm waiting to fertilize the egg at ovulation. The egg is viable for about 24 hours once ovulation occurs... the earlier in that 24 hour period the better. Sperm can live for several days just before ovulation occurs. They will die off fairly quickly at any other time of the month and there is no egg at any other time of the month.

    Again, if she is right on when she most likely ovulated, she wouldn't get pregnant.
  • Aug 24, 2010, 04:10 PM
    dude21

    Thank you for all your help! She started today around noon!
  • Aug 24, 2010, 04:15 PM
    DoulaLC

    Whew! Glad you both can rest easy... but do be careful in the future to avoid unnecessary worry.

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