Heyyyy.

All right ill give you a little bit of background information. So this girl I work with for the past year. We became really good friends like we would hang out all the time and stuff but we never really felt anything. First I had a girlfriend at the time and she is a party animal.

So as most of you know I've been single for the last few months and stuff. And me and this girl I work with got really close. Always talking and hanging out. Then one night we just kissed, it was pretty amazing not going to lie. Anyway after that we have just been all over each other.

I had feelings for her awhile ago but never thought of it. There was so much sexual tension between us. And finally I kissed her one night while I was leaving and bam! My feelings are just getting stronger for her. We work together which is fine, for now until something happens. But she doesn't want people at work to know about which is all right.

So I like her. I know she likes me. But neither of us want to be tied down. Like no strings attached so friends with benefits. I'm fine with that, but I somewhat get jealous when she goes out to the clubs and wheeels some guy.

I don't know really how to get over the jealousy. Is this normal? Also, when I go out she tells me she gets jealous and stuff. I don't know what to do... any suggestions? :)

Key phrase = friends with benefits.

You both are in a NON-committed relationship.

Workplace relationship can be easy fun, until they fizzle, and then it gets complicated so I suggest you and your secret lover not get caught up in quick, easy, and convenient romance, and for you especially, don't get carried away by your feelings, because you know first hand what a hard time you have keeping a proper perspective, so you don't hurt yourself.