Hi,

I am a 16 year old girl who is in love with the person that she talks on the phone with every night. The person on the phone is also a 16 year old girl.:confused: :confused: I am confused about if it is right to be liking her or what... :confused: what should I do

Hi Girlinme,
Welcome to AMHD. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being attracted to her, or having feelings for her beyond simple friendship. It is entirely up to you whether you wish to pursue your interest in her. Things to consider are, how long have you been friends, and how close are you in general? Do you think she might share these feelings in some regard, and has she ever shown any outward romantic interest in people of the same sex? It's often hard to predict how some people will react to such an advance or interest, so you must decide whether it is worth perhaps jeopardizing what you already have. But if you feel the potential benefits may outweigh any inherent risks -- sure, try to subtly determine how she might feel on the issue of dating another girl. As long as the two of you are happy, that is what matters most.
Good luck. Take care. :)

There is nothing wrong with liking her. It is up to you whether you want to share this or not. What kind of response you will get. It could go both ways, but you do not know until you talk to this person. What do you feel is the best thing to do. What do you think is best for you and her? Are you ready to share this info or just keep it to yourself for now?

You know, this may or may not mean you're a lesbian.Its normal at one time of your life to be attracted to a chick you know. For one you might feel really close to her because you might know things about each other because a boyfreind is like a best friend except opposite sex and you have more feelings for you.Now, I might be wrong, but I think it is completely fine to be gya or lesbian. I know in some churches rules are strricter but just follow your heart, OK? Let me know how this turns out by posting the results

Have you actually met face to face or is this just a phone friendship?